While the famous Nigerian music duo, Psquare, made up of Peter and Paul Okoye, continues to experience family tensions and public drama, their wives have largely chosen to stay out of the spotlight. But behind every successful man are women who play crucial roles—not just in private life, but in shaping public perception, family values, and sometimes even business decisions.
Though not directly involved in the ongoing conflict between the Okoye brothers, these women have been the subject of speculations, accusations, and social media commentary. Here’s a closer look at the women behind the Psquare legacy.
The Rift Between the Brothers: A Quick Recap
Once Africa’s most beloved pop duo, Psquare thrilled fans with back-to-back hits and electrifying performances. But internal family disputes, rumored disagreements over finances and management, and clashes between their respective households led to a very public fallout.
At the center of these tensions, many believe, lies more than just sibling rivalry—there’s the silent influence of family members, including their spouses.
In 2021, Paul Okoye shared a cryptic Instagram post hinting that an unnamed woman was trying to “destroy” their family, which many fans interpreted as a jab toward Peter’s wife. On Peter’s side, the accusations went deeper, with claims that his elder brother Jude once threatened his wife’s life.
Despite the heat, the Okoye wives have mostly stayed quiet. But their backstories speak volumes.
1. Lola Omotayo-Okoye: The Woman Peter Chose Against All Odds
Lola Omotayo is arguably the most talked-about of the Okoye wives. A marketing executive of Nigerian and Russian descent, Lola met Peter in the early 2000s while he was still finding his footing in the music industry. Their love blossomed long before Psquare became a household name.
In 2008, the couple welcomed their first son, Cameron. They later tied the knot in an extravagant wedding ceremony in November 2013, which was attended by top Nigerian celebrities and dignitaries.
Lola has been both celebrated and criticized in the media. One of the most persistent narratives was that Psquare’s late mother disapproved of her—allegedly due to tribal differences, as Lola is Yoruba and the Okoyes are Igbo. This rumor has been neither confirmed nor denied but has contributed to fan theories about the root of the Psquare fallout.
Despite this, Peter has always remained vocal in defending his wife. He once stated, “She’s the love of my life, and no one can change that.” In her own words, Lola said:
“When I met my husband, people were like, ‘What are you doing with him? He has nothing.’ But I saw his dream. I chose to stick with him because he had focus and drive. Look at him now!”
Her unwavering support and belief in Peter before the fame earned her both admiration and criticism, but she remains a pillar in Peter’s life.
2. Anita Okoye: Paul’s Quiet but Resilient Partner
Anita Isama, now Anita Okoye, met Paul while studying law at the University of Abuja. Unlike Lola, Anita has always maintained a relatively low profile, steering clear of the entertainment limelight even as her husband rose to stardom.
The couple dated for nearly a decade before they finally tied the knot in March 2014 in a lavish wedding held in Port Harcourt. They are blessed with children, and Anita has often described Paul as a loving husband and devoted father.
Although she has not been publicly linked to the feud between the brothers, fans couldn’t help but notice her measured silence when the family drama unfolded. In 2021, Anita filed for divorce citing irreconcilable differences, a development that shocked many fans. However, both parties seem committed to co-parenting and maintaining peace for the sake of their children.
Despite her reserved nature, Anita has a strong educational and professional background and is passionate about youth and women empowerment.
3. Ify Okoye: Jude’s Support System
Jude Okoye, the eldest of the Okoye brothers and former manager of Psquare, is married to Ifeoma (Ify) Okoye. A former beauty queen and model, Ify has mostly stayed away from media controversies but is known for her elegance and poise.
She and Jude got married in July 2014 and have since built a beautiful family together. Though not involved in the music scene, Ify has occasionally spoken out in defense of her family when tensions within the Okoye clan escalated on social media.
Her presence completes the trio of women who have helped shape the narrative of the Okoye family, whether in the limelight or behind the scenes.
Are the Wives the Problem or the Peacemakers?
While fans and bloggers speculate that the wives may have played a role in the rift between Psquare, it’s important to remember that these are grown men making their own decisions. That said, family dynamics are complex, and when fame, fortune, and cultural expectations come into play, tensions can quickly become explosive.
None of the wives have made public statements attacking one another, choosing instead to focus on raising their children, supporting their husbands, and protecting their peace.
Final Thoughts
The Psquare saga is more than just a celebrity spat. It’s a story of brotherhood, fame, loyalty, and the quiet strength of the women who support these public figures behind the scenes. Whether they’re being blamed, misunderstood, or quietly applauded, one thing is clear—the Okoye wives are a crucial part of the Psquare story.
And while the brothers may reconcile or continue apart, the influence of Lola, Anita, and Ify will remain a defining element in how the world remembers Psquare—both as a musical group and as a family.
